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The Art of Not Trying Too Hard (at Christmas)
Pass the Vin Chaud, slice up the saucisson and press play on your Messy Xmas soundtrack (a playlist that won’t drive you nuts).
At Messy Nessy’s Cabinet, we say non merci to the hurried holiday stress. We’re worlds away from the orchestral soundtrack of department store escalators and consumer urgency. Tucked away down a narrow quiet side street, the lone shop with the flickering lanterns outside isn’t trying to keep up.
It may be a little shop but it knows what it’s here for; to offer refuge from the rush; step inside, slow down, and linger a while with Chet Baker playing softly in the background.
Our gifts are chosen the way stories are; thoughtfully, with a sense of who they’re for. It’s not about ticking things off lists, it’s about finding ways to say the things we don’t always manage to say the rest of the year. I thought of you. I still remember our late night conversations. I listened.
And perhaps you’ll agree, the best gatherings aren’t always the loudest or glitziest ones — they’re the ones where everyone feels seen. And remember that a great little story shared around the dinner table (to break the ice) can be the best gift of all.
But if you do find yourself wandering for something a little extra, online or otherwise, you know where to find us. The door is open (until the eve of the 23rd December included) and let’s agree on a last call for online orders via Santa’s DHL slay around middle of next week (give us elves some time to wrap them nicely).
In the meantime, you’re likely to find me in the Cabinet’s armchair, re-reading passages from “The French Art of Not Trying Too Hard” by our neighbour, Ollivier Pourriol, who shared his wisdom and charm with us at this week’s gathering of the Paris Writers & Readers Club (the salon is ready to watch back if you missed it).
I’ll leave you with a few more distractions from holiday busywork. And may your Christmas prep be thoughtful, unforced, unhurried, and just messy enough.
Stay curious,
Nessy












